Some guys like women in high heels, some don’t. I guess I’m in the ‘don’t’ category.
As you can see in another post on this site – Assume the Position - the wearing of high heels forces women into a more sexualized position, whether they realise it or not. Now obviously some guys will find that sexy. Personally it’s in the same category for me as wearing too much makeup, overdoing the perfume or becoming surgically enhanced. Ladies, you’re sexy because you’re sexy without the add-ons or being artificially forced into contortions.
Another reason given for wearing heels by women is to gain the extra height. Now I know for a fact that most men like to be taller than their mates. Ever been to a party where there is a short guy with a partner who is taller? Hear the titters of amusement, or the wee nudges to check that out? 21st century guys are being outperformed in the classrooms and boardrooms by women throughout the developed world so hey why not take away one advantage they naturally have? Doesn’t make sense to me.
I know the clackity clack of high heels over a hard surface is a head turner for many guys and it is for me too. Particularly if they’re skyscrapers I’m interested in how she manages to walk in them successfully and why she is bothering. So it’s with a feeling of amusement that I’ll turn and gawk a little.
Most guys are practical beings and will see the sense of something if it has a practical purpose. From a male view, the purpose of high heels is the fact that a lady being pursued can’t get away easily as you simply can’t run in the things! Maybe you need to ask the question: Are the men you’re attracting by wearing high heels really the men that you want to attract?
Well that’s just my humble male opinion anyway…..